Let’s face it, as men, we think about sex a lot. A. Lot. It’s how we’re wired.
But the reality is, for as much as we think about it, sometimes the actual act of sex isn’t as… hot or amazing as it is in our heads or in the porn we watch.
But there are plenty of ways we can make sex with our partner even better.
Plan a Unique First Date
Sex is the best when women seem like they can’t get enough of us. But what turns a woman on is different than what turns a guy on. Guys are visual. If the woman shows up in something that shows a bit of skin and cleavage and she smells real nice, we are on our way…
But women aren’t nearly as easy as we are. It takes a bit of effort to make them want us. One of the things you can do to make her become super attracted to you is to be unique. And start from the very beginning.
Don’t take her on a lame first date. She’s met other guys at coffee shops or had a dinner somewhere somewhat fancy. Be different. Take her to a painting class or make a picnic and go to the local pier. She’ll start to want you immediately.
Buy Better Condoms
A lot of guys stick with the same condom brand year after year. It’s like we pledge allegiance to the first time we got laid or something.
But many of us also hate how our condoms feel during sex. If that’s you, you may simply need to go find a better condom. The key is to find a rubber that fits like a glove. Also, look for either ultra-thin condoms or ribbed.
Until you are married and/or monogamous, you’ll need to keep wearing a condom, so you might as well pick one that feels great.
Let Her Massage Your Prostate
If you don’t know exactly where your prostate is or what it does, it’s a walnut-sized gland located between your rectum and bladder. It happens to contain a lot of nerve endings, and when it gets stimulated, it is amazing. This is why is has been dubbed the “male G-spot.”
A lot of guys feel… weird with any kind of butt play, but if she’s open to it, you should really experience this. It may blow your mind. Also, she doesn’t have to stick anything in your anus, she can simply massage your perineum, the area between your anus and scrotum, while giving you oral sex.
Don’t be Stingy with the Lube
No matter how turned on women get, some have a hard time getting wet enough. Too little vaginal lubrication causes friction, which is no fun for either of you. That’s why God invented lube.
All it takes is a few drops before the main event and you two can slip and slide for a long time. If you are using a condom, just be sure to use lubes that are silicone or water based.
Don’t Forget the Foreplay
Guys. I know you want to just get to the sex, but she needs time to warm up. And warming her up can be so much fun. Plus, the longer you put the actual penetration off, the more you build your own desire.
And, when you think about it, the actual act of sex is pretty mechanical, and while it feels good, it’s not that playful or interesting. It’s in the foreplay that you really get to discover each other and interact in an intense way.
Have Sex in a New Place
Yes, sex on a bed in the bedroom is very comfortable. But it can be so comfortable that it becomes a bit boring. Switch it up. Have sex in the shower. Sex in the kitchen. Sex in the car. When you have sex in a different location, you won’t fall back into the routine of sex.
Get Help if You Need it
Sometimes guys can experience a loss of libido and erectile dysfunction. There’s no shame in it, it happens to most men at one time or another. And it can happen to guys who are in their 20s and 30s. A lot of it is from stress and crappy diet.
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