As a guy, you know that sex plays a big role in your life. If you’re not having sex, you’re thinking about having it. And if you’re not thinking about having it, you’re probably sleeping. In which case you’re more than likely having a wet dream.
The point is… guys are hardwired to have sex.
But as we age, our sex lives can sometimes take a hit. You have probably heard that men reach their sexual peak in their 20s, whereas the sexual peak of women usually happens sometime in their late 30s or 40s.
This makes sense when you think about biology. In our 20s, we have tons of testosterone flooding our bloodstream, but estrogen levels for women tend to increase into their 30s and then begin to taper off and then decline before and during menopause.
It is this decrease in sex hormones that tends to snuff out our sex drive and we (gasp) can lose interest in doing the deed. But fear not, there are some steps you can take to get you and your partner in the mood.
1. Stop Being Lazy
In your 20s and 30s you had a lot of energy. But now you sometimes just feel like watching TV and going to sleep. Don’t get into this bad sex habit. It’s important to commit to yourself and your partner and make the effort. Many studies have shown that a healthy sex life is not only good for your body, but you also feel more relaxed and happy. So make the effort! Be spontaneous and if the mood should hit, find the energy to have some fun.
2. Talk Openly with Your Partner
So we’ve established that men love sex, now let’s talk about something we typically don’t like… communication. Ugh, just the word, right?
While we may have been able to play the “strong, silent type” in our youth, now is not the time to keep your feelings to yourself, or to ignore your partner’s feelings. You both are in this together.
Paying more attention to both of your feelings will help you address any underlying issues and bring you two closer. Understanding each other’s needs will increase your intimacy, and that will greatly improve the sex you are having. Right now, it should be about the quality not quantity of sex you are having.
3. Be Adventurous
When you were 23, you’d have sex at 11:30 in the morning in the bathroom at the local Denny’s. But now, when you DO have sex, it’s always at 5:30 PM, lights off, in the bedroom.
While I am not suggesting you MUST have sex in public places to add some spice, I am suggesting that you mix things up. Try it with the light on. Get frisky in the pool. Go shopping together online for some sex toys. Sex should be fun, so be adventurous not boring.
4. Boost Your Libido with Aphrodisiacs
You can really boost your libido with aphrodisiacs. There are many natural products on the market that claim to help get you in the mood. CBD oil has shown to be promising as has saffron and Pausinystalia Yohimbe.
While we can’t attest to those specifically, we can tell you that our Golden Royal Honey is loaded with all-natural ingredients like Royal Jelly, Ginseng and Long Jack, which have all been scientifically proven to help men get their libido back and help them achieve lasting erections.
If you thought your libido was gone for good, think again. Sometimes you just need a little help. So follow these tips, try some Golden Royal Honey, and start having the best sex of your life!